It's a form of grace that comes naturally to us as women, yet we often feel the need to raise our voices to be seen and heard. But what if I told you that there is immense power in moving silently, in leading without words?
In this season, God is teaching me something profound: the strength of silent leadership.
So, what does leading in silence mean? For me, right now, it means navigating a major life change with my family. My husband received a fantastic promotion, which is a huge blessing. However, this promotion requires us to move from our beloved rural home to a bustling urban area within a mile of Manhattan. Talk about a change!
I love our current home, surrounded by nature, beaches, and the quiet serenity of the countryside. My dream has always been to live in a secluded house by a lake, far from the noise and lights of the city. Yet, here we are, preparing to move to a place where I won’t even need a car because everything is within walking distance. It's urban living at its finest—or perhaps its most challenging, depending on your perspective.
Despite our gratitude for this blessing, we’ve faced resistance. The change happened so fast—we had just two weeks to prepare! Thankfully, I managed to buy us a little more time, so for the next month, we’ll be living between two homes, slowly adjusting to our new reality.
This brings me to my first example of silent leadership. When I saw that my children were struggling with the move, I made decisions behind the scenes to support them. As a mother, creating a safe space for my family to process their feelings is paramount. During the pandemic, when fear and uncertainty were rampant, I ensured our home remained a sanctuary. We had themed activities every night—fancy dress dinners, karaoke, game nights, hikes, and educational family meetings about the virus. I never needed to vocalize my leadership; my actions spoke for me.
Fast forward to today, and I’m using the same silent leadership as we prepare for this move. My daughter, who is now of age, expressed a desire to live on her own. Conveniently, an apartment in our neighborhood opened up, perfect for her first solo living experience. Yet, she had reservations about the responsibilities of adulthood.
Instead of dictating what she should do, I listened. I provided information, held space for her emotions, and let her process her feelings without interference. Over time, she worked through her fears and uncertainties, and now she’s considering the apartment seriously. She’s learning, growing, and making her own decisions, and I’m here to support her quietly.
Leading in silence means trusting that inner voice, the divine guidance that tells us exactly what our families need. It’s about moving with grace, holding space for those we love, and guiding them gently without the need for constant words or instructions.
This form of leadership doesn’t need validation from others. It’s a deep, intuitive connection to what is best for our family and children. It’s knowing when to step in and when to step back, allowing our loved ones to find their way while feeling supported and safe.
So, if you find yourself in a season of change or facing challenges, remember the grace of silent leadership. Trust that you have within you the wisdom and strength to guide your family through anything. Stay close to God, lean into that inner knowing, and embrace the power of moving silently. Your actions, love, and presence speak volumes, even when you don’t say a word.
Together, let's navigate life with the grace and strength that only silent
leadership can bring. Your family will feel your guidance, your love, and your unwavering support, even in the quietest moments. And in those moments, they will find the strength to face their own challenges, just as you find the strength to lead them with grace.
Embrace the silence, trust in your inner wisdom, and watch as your family thrives under your gentle, silent guidance. This is the true power of a woman who leads with love, intuition, and divine grace.
You are so so loved,
Connie
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